• njm1314@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    That sounds like a very privileged mindset to me. Most of us don’t have the resources to have that luxury.

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      15 hours ago

      Never had privilege; I’ve just been fortunate enough to have an emergency fund. Took me over a decade to save enough, but I have enough now that I could go 3 months without a job.

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      9 hours ago

      Care to explain why you would think only the privileged are the ones who tend not to put the cart before the horse?

      Edit: apologies, I skimmed read and was half asleep when I read the post. I did not realise that the person already signed the contract but was suddenly thrown under the bus.

      • Psychadelligoat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        10 hours ago

        If you’re as far along as the guy in OP then you’re being irresponsible to not be looking for a place to live. Dude got the job and had it pulled from him, this would get him unemployment in California at least (I should know - I got unemployment in California in basically this scenario)

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          10 hours ago

          As someone mentioned already, wait until actually signing the contract before moving. It is not “privileged” not to put the cart before the horse.

          • Psychadelligoat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            4 hours ago

            “signing the contract” doesn’t happen at most places, an offer is more than enough to constitute reasonable cause to start preparing to move for a job

            If you wait to start moving your gonna not have a place to live with that new job, shit takes time