• JulieLemming@lemm.ee
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    This is what happens when you are on the internet for too long. You no longer want to be a part time anonymous troll but a real life one too except that can have some inconvenient side effects

    The problem with Reddit and Lemmy too is that people are just mostly pretty strange there and it is hard to take it all seriously

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    Yeah turns out it wasn’t anonymity, that was estimated because the internet has a greater amoun of dickery than real life.

    But really, Assholes online are also assholes in real life. Same for kibd people. What the internet did was allow assholes find and network with each other, and make environment uncomfoetable enough that kind people leave. Only assholes are left.

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    Really like how the artist used the “? face” to symbolize anonimity and drawing the after with real faces to tell that anonimity is gone.

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    I always though it was anonymity, but its more likely the missing human connection. On the internet, our thoughts are transmitted without seeing the person before us in real time, so some may act different, forgetting there is a person on the other side.

    There’s obviously people who don’t give a shit, but they were just assholes to begin with.

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      Fear of retaliation by the physical human in front of you as well. Some people are good because they believe in the value of goodness but a lot of them only act right when they can’t get away with being awful.

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    People on Lemmy are getting bad too, you can’t disagree with someone in the most inoffensive way without getting a response full of hateful comments or name calling. Like if had a face to face discussion with a stranger I wouldn’t be like “you’re a brain dead idiot and you’re stupid” that’s rude as fuck, but that’s just how people respond to each other around here and it’s awful

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    I still blame the algorithms. Angry people click more => let’s assure they always get more to click.

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      Yes and no, the main factor are bubbles. Even for the most asshole opinions you can probably find the right bubble where you aren’t shunned for it but get affirming reactions. Algorithms do significantly ease the formation of bubbles but are ultimately not required for it

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      It’s the for profit corporate capture really. When everyone started thinking of the internet as 5 websites and their bank.

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      I still blame the algorithms.

      And I think that’s a lack of memory. Where were those “algorithms” in flame wars on news groups, mailing lists, fora on the Internet & Web 1.0?

      Even when the web became highly commercialized, there remained non-commercial sites of largely unmoderated, anonymized discussion & imageboards driven by the “hivemind”: where were “the algorithms” there?

      It’s unrestrained people uninhibited from putting their unfiltered thoughts online to stir discussion: no “algorithms” required. “The algorithms” steer even the least sophisticated users to the content that captures their attention. And moderation maintains that attention by subduing those elements that would result in users ragequitting the Internet & missing those ads they scroll past.

      Maybe we need to bring back ragequitting?

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        I highly doubt a social network would ever lack incentive for increased engagement (via shock value and toxicity or otherwise) in a non-capitalist society.

        They may gain popularity, societal influence, or whatever else instead of money. They’re still motivated to deepen that connection.

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      Why don’t people affected by algos just choose not to use them? I don’t use any content-feeding algorithms beyond basic non-personalized sorting functions that I can examine the code of myself if I wish as here on Lemmy.

      But people don’t want that, or they’d be on Lemmy, Mastodon etc. People don’t even use the subscriptions page on YouTube, they prefer the algorithms, they don’t like having agency and they don’t like making decisions. Some people even use shuffle on just algo suggested songs on Spotify.

      Many yet, pay with their time via choosing to hear and see ads for this privilege.

      Some even pay money for renting algorithmic digital slop. Every time Netflix raises prices, the subscriptions increase. People love the boot.

      So aren’t people to blame?

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      Can we tackle the root cause (advertising) somehow?

      If there’s no incentive to farm clicks, maybe the circlejerk could stop.

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        The root cause is billionaires.

        There’s no stopping trolls completely, but they were self limiting when the internet was more disaggregated and a little less accessible. It’s greedy Big Tech, led by a few people, that weaponized them into world-scale attention farms.

        Advertising is a huge enabler yeah, but I have to wonder if they could’ve leveraged other schemes back then, like the Patreon/Onlyfans model, crypto, or whatever.

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    It was never just the anonymity, it was the lack of consequences as well. Combined those two often lead to people showing their worst selves.

    Now though? Often those worst characteristics are applauded by others. It’s disappointing.

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      Problem is, things are so divided right now that you can say anything and one half of the divide will support you just about no matter what.

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        People are extremely desperate to live in a black and white world with no nuance or shades of gray, they want to live in a world of Right or Wrong and believe everyone should agree with them or they’re stupid

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      Also the best, not just the worst. I agree but I hate to be pessimistic. Back then we used to dig to the shit to find a few hidden gems. The amount of gems stayed the same but the pile of shit got bigger. I liked the internet more when it was more like island with a lot of activity instead of bridges everywhere (I know the irony being on Lemmy). I miss active bulletin boards. Reddit really killed forums. Everyone wants convenience instead of quality. And everyone seems to be in a hurry

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        Yeah before www I would say there was more good than bad. Im talking about 93 before aol. The word troll was about the few bad actors spoinling things. But its like the good followed a linear growth rate while the bad followed an exponential growth rate.

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    I don’t know, the people sending death threats to anyone that calls their favorite internet personality dumb seem preety bent on doing so behind fake e-mails and names…

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      Right, this is the other side of the same coin, and also feels like a part of what people seem to have forgotten about the Internet.

      Before: Don’t give out your personal info to anyone online. You have no idea who’s on the other side!

      Now: Hey, everyone, here’s my name, and all the details of my life, and all the opinions I hold. Hope you all like it!

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    Yeah but also targeted advertising and invasive data harvesting.

    The internet was definitely better before.

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      There was a long time of that happening and everyone being blisfully unaware. That’s the period that feels like the golden age to me because we were getting all these new cool and free services not fully realizing what we are paying.