• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    it’s not that hard to have basic levels of respect for people using neo pronouns, and if they’re trolling then let them slip up and get banned for that.

    it’s just an observed pattern of behavior that .world has a lot of cis people who misgender people when they disagree with them like it’s an argument

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      it’s not that hard to have basic levels of respect for people using neo pronouns, and if they’re trolling then let them slip up and get banned for that.

      Okay? Where does that play into your slander about the .world 196 being filled with people who don’t respect neopronouns?

      it’s just an observed pattern of behavior that .world has a lot of cis people who misgender people when they disagree with them like it’s an argument

      So now it’s not the .world 196, it’s .world in general.

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        So now it’s not the .world 196, it’s .world in general.

        there was a pretty clear reason they left and went to .world, they fit the culture better there

        I don’t even use /196 I was just watching from the sidelines for that one lol

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          So first it was you asserting that .world 196 doesn’t respect neopronouns, then it turned into .world has a tendency to have people who don’t respect neopronouns, and now it’s “I have a vibe that 196 doesn’t respect pronouns, but I don’t actually use 196”.

          btw, are you still banned from the 196 on Blahaj? Of course, you don’t use it. :)

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            “I have a vibe that 196 doesn’t respect pronouns, but I don’t actually use 196”.

            I said that was the reason they left, because it was a huge debacle that nobody could miss when it happened.

            I’m the esl person here, is reading what I’m saying instead of of making up shit really that difficult?

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              I said that was the reason they left, because it was a huge debacle that nobody could miss when it happened.

              You didn’t miss it, but apparently, you were completely incapable of parsing what was going on. Which is unsurprising coming from someone who bootlicks dictators and thinks that’s leftism. :)

              instead of of making up shit

              lmao, coming from someone who’s claiming the 196 move was over .world not respecting neopronouns, when respecting neopronouns is still a rule on the .world 196 and has been since day 1 of the move.

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                  maybe you should tell me what your narrative is then

                  Exactly what the 196 mods said, if you’d bothered to read literally any of the stickied posts that came up at the time. There was disagreement with the admins over how to moderate 196, especially regarding ban lengths and presumption of good faith.

                  But of course, you didn’t read any of it. You made up a narrative that you suited your pre-existing biases, and proceed to spread it even though, but your own admission, you didn’t follow the issue - apparently at all. Of course, you also claimed that you don’t use 196 despite having been banned from 196, so maybe you aren’t the most reliable narrator. :)

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                    you also claimed that you don’t use 196 despite having been banned from 196, so maybe you aren’t the most reliable narrator.

                    it’s called /all I hadn’t bothered the block the new 196 so it showed up, I commented because I took it as some earnestly asking for advice, rather than a cj thread

                    There was disagreement with the admins over how to moderate 196, especially regarding ban lengths and presumption of good faith

                    wonder what the good faith issue was 🤔

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            I was banned from blahaj 196 for suggesting that they have a healthy relationship with other people IRL instead of behaving terminally online, yes

            you should re-block me your posts are awful

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                I wasn’t seeing any of your posts for a blessedly long period of time. weird, wonder why that was if it wasn’t a block

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                  Ask your cretinous .ml admins to site ban me again from an instance I don’t even post on for the sin of thinking that Ukrainians and Uyghurs are people. :)

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                    I don’t think they’re from Crete, maybe you should try insulting people less in the future?