the lack of sigh emojis is a crime I don’t know. Do you think that’d be the best way to go?
I am worried they won’t be accepting/understand trans issues and when I get nervous I over explain. Maybe by saying its because I don’t always like being a guy they’ll understand that.
Not sure I’d consider it good advice, but you could just slightly modify your presentation in ways that clearly break norms for guys and make subtle (or not subtle) hints that your mom seems to somehow be oblivious to despite your stepmom seeming to pick up on it despite hearing a lot less direct “hints.” Probably easier to just come out, but maybe you could turn it into a game of how direct you can be without one of them seeming to have any clue if they’re as oblivious as my mom.
I think it would be a start, can keep it as vague as you want also if you don’t feel like gutting yourself to your friends (though I think they’d understand y’know) But at least it’ll be a first big step in the right direction
the lack of sigh emojis is a crimeI don’t know. Do you think that’d be the best way to go?I am worried they won’t be accepting/understand trans issues and when I get nervous I over explain. Maybe by saying its because I don’t always like being a guy they’ll understand that.
Not sure I’d consider it good advice, but you could just slightly modify your presentation in ways that clearly break norms for guys and make subtle (or not subtle) hints that your mom seems to somehow be oblivious to despite your stepmom seeming to pick up on it despite hearing a lot less direct “hints.” Probably easier to just come out, but maybe you could turn it into a game of how direct you can be without one of them seeming to have any clue if they’re as oblivious as my mom.
They’re more of an online friend, but that’s very funny.
I think it would be a start, can keep it as vague as you want also if you don’t feel like gutting yourself to your friends (though I think they’d understand y’know) But at least it’ll be a first big step in the right direction