Evidence that many trans people feel they’ve experienced lots of transphobia there? Would be easy to find that, but I don’t care to do that for some off-hand comment. My point had nothing to do with blahaj itself, but rather about how common that opinion is from trans people.

Was wondering if they’d get more explicit with what they were implying. Probably not after having a couple people point out how its problematic, but they also got a some upvotes from people who might just be upvoting all replies to my comment.

Still, the ADHD stream-of-conscious posting probably doesn’t help. I’m reminded of the jokes about English classes forcing students to give some explanation of the “meaning” of small details in stories even if the author actually intended no such thing.

I never compared blahaj instance to nazis. I compared the argument that the name having “blahaj” in it to meaning the instance is inherently free of transphobia to the stupid argument that having “socialist” in its name means nazis are socialists.

I haven’t had any personal problems and certainly wouldn’t make sure a comparison. Also just realized why its seemed so dead: apparently they defederated with the instance I’m using recently. Seems like they’re at least trying something.

Seems like a weird schtick to post primary in trans communities just to make in 1 in 1000 comments a complaint about their own experiences in a specific community. But sure, you get to be the arbiter of who gets to count as real trans people.

I’ve probably only forgotten to take my HRT like a couple times in the last few months. I did accidentally miss my allergy medicine a couple days ago. Never have gotten any medication for ADHD though - my mom was against it when I was a toddler and a doctor tried to prescribe it and I haven’t bothered trying it on my own. Getting a new diagnosis as an adult seems annoying and expensive.

Read the thing I was replying to or my own comment. If the former, definitely. If the latter, probably not. Is there some obvious typo in my comment or something?

I don’t really pay attention to which instance I’m in and don’t really see all the much transphobia in general, but like I also don’t read through the comments on the types of things that would attract transphobia (things like talks about banning trans people from participating in sports, for example - no meme communities). Just pointing out what the argument is of those who have beef with blajahzone.

Agreed. Which is why I said nothing about China.

That said, boobs are really nice, but men have this proclivity to ogle you in public without shame. It can make me feel scuzzy from time to time.

Is this is mostly based on pre-upgrade experiences?

I kinda feel like “without shame” might be an understatement: it almost feels like an expectation of comp het to do such.

Just grow boobs and worry about social transitioning later (if its something you want) if that works for you. You get some time, although how much depends on how fast you grow and how you dress.

Congrats!

Looking forward to more people finishing their tests. I’m gonna need a break after all the tests people are taking.

If there wasn’t a cap, they’d quickly run out of their limited resource of name changes /s

Lmao my mom told me I yawn “like a lady” since I was a toddler after I came out to her hahaha

My lesbian step mom use to complain that I “laughed like a girl” and told me that girls wouldn’t be interested in me because of my laugh. Didn’t realize I was trans or aroace at the time, but I didn’t really consider it an insult nor did I care how it would affect how interested girls would be interested in me. Just found it weird that a woman would use “like a girl” as an insult unironically.

My classmates seemed to just think I had an amusing/contagious laugh and I remember one person comparing it to mickey mouse. Which did lead to an instance of harassment with seatmates on a bus trying to tickle me to make me laugh because they liked my laugh during a long bus ride while others were trying to sleep.

I considered timing starting HRT 6 months from my birthday exactly to make it easier to remember and to spread out the celebration and probably would have if it was like a week or two from when I finally got HRT.

Bad-posting is fine too. But hopefully you can get some more living security soon.

Would you say the nazis were socialist because they called themselves “National Socialists”?

Anyways, pretty much any time I see trans people talk about that instance, they complain about all the transphobes that gather there (probably to be transphobic to trans people) and mods/admins do nothing about. If an instance is full of transphobia, seems pretty fair to call it transphobic instance.

If they opened outward, they’d block egress in the hallway, which would have equal or more traffick than any single room connected and will enough people in the hallway, you wouldn’t be able to open the door to escape at all.

Ass/assin

Not even 1000 hours in a single game? Most casual of casuals.

Was a bio major. But I like math/physics more than bio. Granted, I covered the quantum stuff in biophysics and an inorganic chem-like class and I only had to take the thermo part of pchem.