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  • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    7 months ago

    Cab driver guy gendered me and my wife as “girls”. This usually wouldn’t be that notable, except that My Brother In Christ, I was wearing my work uniform, unkempt and worse than zero effort, not even trying voicewise.

    Was cab driver guy doing a bit, or is this the definition of winning? I know it’s kinda brainwormed to be suspicious when people gender you correctly, but I tend to expect that my voice will out me most days, but uh it hasnt happened. I feel both extremely satisfied and somewhat confused. Actually I can’t even remember the last time I got gendered wrong, gotta be more than a year ago by now. I’m the scary gender-apathetic dyke I always wished to be…

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      7 months ago

      izutsumi-idea I got it, it’s 'cause I started waving at people instead of nodding at them, for greetings. This action has changed my Essential Gender Energy from Masculine to Feminine, and I am now synchronised and in-tune with the Divine Feminine. Clearly.

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      7 months ago

      youre winning

      one time when i was at like 2 years hrt i started passing even with a very lazily shaved depression beard. it almost felt like everyone had extremely bad eyesight or were in on a conspiracy to be nice to me, sometimes