• sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz
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          7 months ago

          Fuck both your ex-friend and the internet weirdo arguing with you about your family’s safety and value, holy shit. Who asked for their toxic parenting advice/analysis???

          You made a decision based on your priorities, and I hope you and your family are doing well, and your child is THRIVING!

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            7 months ago

            How the fuck is anything I said arguing about this person’s family’s value??

            What the fuck?

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                7 months ago

                I hate being bullied. When I get treated with this level of disgust and contempt, it makes me feel undignified to just slink away.

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                  7 months ago

                  You’re being bullied?

                  Someone shared a personal story and you took the side of the aggressor, and then tripled down on it.

                  And you’re being bullied, huh?

                  • intensely_human@lemm.ee
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                    7 months ago

                    “The aggressor”?

                    The person who said “I read a study that mixed-race kids are at higher risk for suicide” is the aggressor to you?

                    And the person who cast their twenty year friend as a racist for saying this, and ended that twenty-year friendship for this, is not an aggressor at all?

                    And yes. You perceiving that I have my own issues with people discarding me, and then knowing exactly where to poke to hit that nerve in me, yes you’re a bully.

                    And honestly I hope you don’t know it. I hope it takes as long as humanly possible for you to acknowledge it.

                • bane_killgrind@lemmy.ml
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                  7 months ago

                  Maybe you are getting bullied because you are a hostile twat, if you bothered to agitate a brain cell you could see you don’t have any dignity.

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          7 months ago

          Not sure if you read my last comment at all but it was a lot of effort to identify and step away from assumptions I made.

          Sorry you’re an emotional wreck right now. Hope you feel better soon.

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            7 months ago

            Not a lot of people here will say this, but props for recognizing you were in the wrong here. It’s not easy to do.

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        7 months ago

        You should slap your father for not having the common decency to wipe you on the curtains.