• muusemuuse@lemm.ee
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    21 hours ago

    How did you manage to find an actual person to talk to on grindr? It’s all bots, ads and crypto scams for me.

    • Lumelore (She/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      19 hours ago

      I’m a trans woman, but I went on grindr to search for femboys one time since there aren’t really any on lesbian apps and I got so many unsolicited dick pics + one gaping bussy pic that I just left and never came back. And I was only on there for like 5 minutes. I don’t know if those dick pics were from bots or not but I’ve stopped using dating apps cause it seems every single one gets me either a bunch of bots or a bunch of dick pics.

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        18 hours ago

        Grindr is one big flesh market, honestly. It’s a 10/90 gamble, 90% dick pics and 10% the occassional deep … discussions.

        • GoodLuckToFriends
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          17 hours ago

          It’s also a great way to gain access to buildings. I know someone who uses it to get into high rise apartments with his buddies. Set the proximity search thingamajig to a few hundred feet, and you’ll only match with others in that building you’re outside of. He gets a lay, his buddies make their way to the top, and he joins them later.