• Lumelore (She/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 day ago

    I’m a trans woman, but I went on grindr to search for femboys one time since there aren’t really any on lesbian apps and I got so many unsolicited dick pics + one gaping bussy pic that I just left and never came back. And I was only on there for like 5 minutes. I don’t know if those dick pics were from bots or not but I’ve stopped using dating apps cause it seems every single one gets me either a bunch of bots or a bunch of dick pics.

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        7 hours ago

        I’ve actually seen a few and I personally don’t have a problem with it. I have also seen a lot of trans men on lesbian apps and technically, they should be on straight dating apps, but queer dating apps are more welcoming and it’s not an uncommon experience for transgender people to get banned from straight dating apps unfortunately (I myself am banned from tinder). I wouldn’t be surprised if those apps were also banning femboys as well.

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      Grindr is one big flesh market, honestly. It’s a 10/90 gamble, 90% dick pics and 10% the occassional deep … discussions.

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        It’s also a great way to gain access to buildings. I know someone who uses it to get into high rise apartments with his buddies. Set the proximity search thingamajig to a few hundred feet, and you’ll only match with others in that building you’re outside of. He gets a lay, his buddies make their way to the top, and he joins them later.