My understanding is Germanic Puss (as in cat) comes from the sound a cat makes when hissing, and over time “Pussy” means someone who is scared/angry
Thus the term “Scaredy-cat” as well.
My understanding is calling someone a pussy is literally just a more vulgar version of scaredy-cat, not a woman’s vagina.
And calling someone a cat as a derogatory term way predates it as a term for vagina.
It’s why we have words like “catty”, in the 1600s “Puss” was a term for (primarily a woman) who was acting very sour / mean (like a cat)
Pussy as a term for a vagina came way after, when “Puss” started to become a term of endearment (and now we cringe at someone calling their SO “Kitten”), and then further on to become sexual in meaning.
I’m not an ethymologist, but I remember looking around when this last came up, and while there weren’t really any fully authoritative sources, the consensus seemed to be that the insult referred to the body part, and the existence of an old-timey word that sounded similar was a fun coincidence.
It IS a rather odd coincidence, then.
It is a coincidence, but it’s an interesting one.
Pusillanimis comes from the Latin pusillus.
Pussy comes from Germanic puss, as in cat; both the insulting sense of the word and the slang for vagina
My understanding is Germanic Puss (as in cat) comes from the sound a cat makes when hissing, and over time “Pussy” means someone who is scared/angry
Thus the term “Scaredy-cat” as well.
My understanding is calling someone a pussy is literally just a more vulgar version of scaredy-cat, not a woman’s vagina.
And calling someone a cat as a derogatory term way predates it as a term for vagina.
It’s why we have words like “catty”, in the 1600s “Puss” was a term for (primarily a woman) who was acting very sour / mean (like a cat)
Pussy as a term for a vagina came way after, when “Puss” started to become a term of endearment (and now we cringe at someone calling their SO “Kitten”), and then further on to become sexual in meaning.
I’m not an ethymologist, but I remember looking around when this last came up, and while there weren’t really any fully authoritative sources, the consensus seemed to be that the insult referred to the body part, and the existence of an old-timey word that sounded similar was a fun coincidence.