So now that we’ve established how many of you would suck a dick for your specified price, how many of you would let another man suck your cock? Would you let him do it for free or would you charge for it? Would you let him do it for free but only under certain conditions? Lemmy know what you think! 😉 (FYI not looking for hookups)
Nah
I’m just not attracted to blokes
When I was single, I had loads of gay guys offering to “help” me
I’d rather just have a wank
I’m no prude, I’m a filthy pervert, but I’m just not into dudes. I have often wished I was, because it would be a whole new world of experiences, but it’s just not my thing
Pleasure is pleasure. If it feels good, why not?
Nope. I’ve tried a couple times. Couldn’t stay hard.
I think sexuality is definitely a spectrum, but I appear to be 100% on the “straight” end of that spectrum.
Fun relevant story: I had a roommate who was a trans woman. She was totally into me, and (issues with fucking roommates aside), I had zero interest. Then, she got surgery. The whole shebang, top, bottom, adams apple, face, everything. And after all the bruising and stuff went away I caught myself looking at her sometimes thinking “oh wow she’s looking hot”. I dunno if it was the surgery or gym or what but she got an amazing ass and liked walking around in short shorts.
She was a fucking psycho tho so we never did anything and she eventually moved out.
Anyway, I guess I’d let a dude suck my flaccid dick for a price, not sure what that would be but I can’t imagine any guys would be interested.
i am gay and i have always struggled with this question, because i have absolutely sucked straight men off. but like… that’s not straight is it?
Is gayness in the act or the desire? I know gay men who had sex with women before they came out of the closet. Did that make them straight?
Well, to be more accurate, you sucked off men who claimed to be straight. There’s a lot of wiggle room in that.
Its not.
I had said in the past “Well it would be a blowjob, and I’m not giving it so that doesnt make me gay” - because despite knowing people who were bi, for some reason my brain didnt acknowledge being in as an option for me.
I’ve resolved that since, but only for a few years now, and I’m in my mid fourties.
It’s not straight. Those men are closeted bisexual.
What if they’re only interested in receiving oral from other men but nothing else? That’s not exactly bisexual
How is it not bisexual?
Lack of attraction.
That’s where I’d draw the line in sand.
I find labelling of sexual preferences a bit tedious. Having labels can be handy when they serve as a shorthand, but sexual preferences have all kind of identity-building connotations.
So, personally I think someone who identifies as a man is attracted to other men for any kind of sex, that’s gay. Having preferences for what particular kind of sex doesn’t change that.
I know a lot of people don’t feel that way. For a lot of cultures and people what makes it gay is a man being poked with a dick, whether that’s in your mouth or ass. That’s why when they are trying to figure out risk for diseases they ask if you’ve had sex with a man, not if you’re gay.
Thats an extremely binary view, and sexuality doesnt work like that, its a spectrum.
Now I would say they are not straight, but it does not make them now explicitly gay.
Sorry I should have just deleted that rambling text before posting, but oh well.
To be clear when mention gay there I just mean sexual attraction to the same sex, independent of any attraction or not to the other sex (or non-binary people or whatever).
Personal experience but
Most men are a good amount bi, at the very least curious enough to at least try
Most don’t let themselves, can’t enjoy something that dogma doesn’t allow, now can we?
If the straight guy closes his eyes and imagines I am a girl while I suck his cock, I’d say that’s still technically straight, since homosexuality is about the attraction not the act. Still a fellow sodomite tho.
for free? yes even if he was ugly, but off course disease free. I would only pay if he was feminie/cute
I would only consent to this for a significant amount of money. Like, at least $100k. I’d also set up specific rules about how the BJ will be for a set time limit, since I almost certainly won’t cum, and I likely won’t even get hard. Also, I might squirm in disgust the whole time.
I have nothing against gay people, and I support gay rights, etc. But I am straight, and the idea of sexual contact with another man creates a visceral sense of disgust in me. Sorry to the “everyone’s a little bit bi” crowd. I’m not. Get over it.
I volunteer to be the “man” if anyone wants 😘
I’d volunteer to be “straight” for you 😉
Yes, please!! 😍
If i didn’t have a partner, sure. I’d be down to try stuff with a dude.
I would if my partner was into it/getting off from it. I would do amend for my girl’s orgasms
Hypothetically, or in reality?
Because I’m sure I could come up with (heh) situations where I’d be willing. But they aren’t realistic.
Here, in the real world, I’ve gotten offers from dudes that were absolute smoke shows. Of pretty much all types, though I usually got more bears, otters, and twinks overall. I’ve never been sucked off by a guy.
But I don’t have some kind of moral objection to it. It also doesn’t gross me out or anything, I’ve seen it happen to other guys in person, and it’s just meh. Doesn’t turn me on, doesn’t bother me.
I’m not sure I could maintain an erection long enough though. For me, part of what works is being fully engaged with a partner. Sight, sound, scent, touch, taste, the whole sensory involvement. And guys don’t arouse me (unfortunately). Again, I’ve had hot guys make serious passes, and there’s no spark in my brain that turns the arousal cycle on.
Like, get it hard, then the man lays lips on it? Yeah, I could make that happen, I’m sure. But going through the entire session? I don’t think so. Maybe if I kicked back and stayed deep in fantasy, but that never works out with women, so why would it with guys? If I try to fantasize during head with women, it distracts me too much, and I lose interest. Like I said, I work best with full sensory engagement; it’s why I’m not usually super into head on the receiving end. I like it, don’t get me wrong, but it takes the right situation for it to go beyond foreplay and into an event.
But, maybe I’m wrong, and it would work fine, I dunno but I don’t have the interest to try.
Money wouldn’t help make it happen, but if it was for money, it would be with the same caveat that the dollar amount would be huge.
I know, I’m no fun. But it takes more than just genital stimulation to keep my interest. If that’s all I want, I’d rather just masturbate than use someone like a sex toy. That just isn’t my thing
There’s always aphrodisiacs such as Viagra or cock rings etc. to help you maintain an erection. 😉
True, but if I’m doing that, there’s still a matter of motivation.
Why would I do that? Who are they that I’m willing to take unnecessary medication or partially bind my privates?
It isn’t impossible, just not feasible
Perhaps you had dry spells, balls are turning blue, no ladies around that you can fuck, jerking just isn’t enough, had a few drinks, found a willing man, and decided it sounded like a good idea lol.
Idk, I’m just making up stupid scenarios at this point lol 😆
Lmao, nothing wrong with that.
Soooo…
Wanna suck my dick?
👀😁
Eating pretzel
What? Why?
Feels wrong to charge someone for it and I’ve got zero desire to have it done for free.
I’m not sure if the girls I’ve been with have been mediocre fellatrixes or I’m not that much into it.
Over the years I’ve pretty much have discovered that “straight guys” are totally down for a blowjob, in fact it’s almost a secret wish or desire? And there’s always the caveat of "I’m not gay, it’s just a dude that’s all "
