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    I don’t think you’ve done anything permanent, I did pretty much the same thing for close to two decades. Looking back on photos I looked miserable and barely recognize myself in them still. That said I don’t think I’d ‘pass’ if it was under scrutiny, but the estrogen isn’t to blame for that, it’s more skill issue on my part.

    I feel like if I look in the mirror after all this time and don’t see a cis woman it’s jover

    This really shouldn’t be the goal, but remember that cis women can have things like PCOS. I see mostly cis women when I go to get electrolysis done for example. If the goal is blending in you probably fit in better than you think, and even cis women can fail to ‘pass’ with the unrealistic standards at play.