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Anyone have good tips on hiding chest growth in a way that isn’t stiflingly hot? I’m not too worried about it day to day but this summer I may end up at some family functions with family I have no interest in coming out to and am thinking that hoodies won’t work in those temps (I am pretty heavyset so it doesn’t really stand out much yet but still.) I might just send it, people are very oblivious, but if anyone’s got experience…
Wear a snug fitting women’s tank if like you aren’t big enough to have cleavage and people who already know you probably won’t even notice. I assumed it was obvious, my brother confirmed it was obvious, I wasn’t trying to hide it, and yet I’ve had a queer family member I hadn’t seen in years make a comment implying I had normal cis-male levels of testosterone to my surprise.
Snug underwear + loose fitting outerwear probably helps without being too too hot?
Yeah honestly people are oblivious AF, especially if they aren’t queer themselves. Queer people might catch on tho B)