• Rin@lemm.ee
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    10 hours ago

    People don’t really care about men unless they’re beyond the median bell curve threshold (rich/white/etc). As if that’s what defines a human experience.

    In truth, I hardly find these statistics surprising.

    • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world
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      2 hours ago

      People don’t care about white men generally (hence terms like “white trash”). Rich, famous, highly skilled athletes/musicians/scientists/actors/politicians/etc are what people care about. Ultimately it comes down to “what have you done for me lately?”

      In other words, people care about themselves as a rule, and the extent to which they care about others is related to what utility others can provide to the “carer.”

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      9 hours ago

      Culturally, men are often seen as more dispensable, as they are not the ones giving birth. They are also taught to be more “tough”, which leads to less visits to mental health professionals, and, subsequently, deterioration of mental health issues.

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        7 hours ago

        according to my biology teacher, this is not cultural but rather a biological fact prevalent in (most? all?) animals - not that this would help in any debate

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          6 hours ago

          What exactly? Dispensability of males? It is indeed common in the animal world, though not universal; besides, we don’t struggle to survive as a species, and culturally evolved to be humane.

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            4 hours ago

            imho the “humane” part is mostly propaganda to hide the insane atrocities of our time. there is way more (hu)man-made misery than in earlier times

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              2 hours ago

              Earlier times featured slavery, neverending wars everywhere, and a lot of other sources of completely man-made misery.

              Now we got to understand all lives matter, sudden deaths of people are perceived as a big tragedy, yet men are still less grieved upon.