• MonkeMischief
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    a month ago

    I suffered a job exactly like this for almost a decade. Public facing, helpdesk kind of work. Obviously I was also assigned office-like busywork as well.

    So the entire job was just having my brain ripped between “What was I doing?” And “Excuse me fix my problem sir, but let me ramble about how frustrated it makes me for like 20 minutes first because you’re cheaper than a therapist!”

    I’m still trying to undo how much that place screwed me up.

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      a month ago

      cries in high school teacher

      I’m trying to get out of the field but it isn’t easy. I chose the wrong career 😆 🤣 😂

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        Sympathetic hugs for you! 🫂

        I feel your pain friend. I’m sure you’re a fantastic teacher though! But I bet the constant focus-breaking and admin side of things puts a serious strain on you!

        I found myself teaching a martial arts class regularly as a side thing. (Classes across all age groups), and even though people think I’m “so outgoing”, lemme tell ya…the martial arts part is the least exhausting part of it! 😂

        I hope you find something that still feels fulfilling but allows you to work more naturally. :)

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          Thanks so much for this post! ❤️

          I actually did get good at it and even experienced the same via masking. Unfortunately, masking and perfectionism are not sustainable over a whole career and what sucks is that the teaching field tries to (in my experience) keep people within the education discipline via guilt and a lack of training outside of the classroom.

          Anyway, I don’t totally regret my career but it’s time to move on. Thanks for the good wishes and response, friend.