• Rania 🇩🇿@lemmygrad.ml
    5·
    1 month ago

    It still baffles me. I can’t get into the mindset of wanting to get off to someone that I also hate.

    a lot of slave owners did uh…

      • SpaceDogs@lemmygrad.ml
        2·
        1 month ago

        I wonder if it has to do with some sort of power fantasy. Like, you are able to make what you hate submit to you in a “pleasurable” way.

        But even with that explanation I still don’t think I can understand the mindset. Maybe someone else can offer a better alternative answer.