I figured a close stereotype for men, would be that they should all be farmers. The thing is, there are under two million farmers in the US as of 2023. So statistically, an equivalent occupation/role should have a larger number.

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    The most direct I can think of is that men should be the sole breadwinner of their family, and that if his wife earns more than him (or even has a job at all) then that’s some kind of failing on his part.

    There are many other similar stereotypes. For example:

    That men have an obligation to defend their/their significant other’s ‘honor’ with violence.

    That men shouldn’t cry or otherwise show strong emotion under nearly any circumstance.

    Men shouldn’t want to interact with children, especially other people’s kids.

    I can go on all day.

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      This last one rarely gets mentioned, but it is very real

      Kids are passionate, curious, and energetic. There’s a lot we as adults may learn from them, and playing with them brings me a lot of joy and also reminds me of simple and magical times of my own childhood.

      Doesn’t mean I’m a child predator or something.

      Somehow society created an expectation that men do not care for children, and then the same society wonders why there are so little genuinely attentive and great dads. Like, make up your mind.