Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades 
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Annoying that its pretty much only trans who people think shouldn’t love themselves. Like, cis men probably wouldn’t use such words because of homophobia, but the underlying phenomenon seems much more normal. But when trans people feel the same way, its a “paraphilia” and should be used to somehow try to diminish the legitimacy of being trans at all as if somehow liking ones body is bad?
Like, who would possibly prefer having sex with a body that it is uncomfortable for them beyond like a one-off experiment?
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The underlying phenomena is totally normal, it’s what the linked study is about, because it is in fact just a male centric heterosexual transphobic thing. Big lol, bigger lmao.
It’s very silly, I remember a post on reddit from some girl genuinely disconcerted about having got off in the mirror a couple times and I think back on that sad about whatever weird shame that nerd was feeling. Very lame, stupid cisnormative way to delegitimise trans people’s sexuality wholesale.