I can’t wrap my mind around someone being wierd about a trans person being a lesbian. Like who wouldn’t want to be femme and date femme people?? That seems natural to me. I can’t understand why someone would want something else. So you like how women look but don’t want to look that way yourself? Oookay.
In my experience on the internet, it seems like a lot of trans femmes like females primarily, whether sexuality or romantically. Guess a lot of those people are bi. But it seems weird to make a stink about you liking women, but not bi people liking women? Unless he’s just assuming bi people are basically straight and erasing the other part of their attraction…
I can’t wrap my mind around someone being wierd about a trans person being a lesbian. Like who wouldn’t want to be femme and date femme people?? That seems natural to me. I can’t understand why someone would want something else. So you like how women look but don’t want to look that way yourself? Oookay.
mentioning transphobia
Being shocked by it is seeing us as men still.
:yea: I know.
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It just kinda hurts. And it seems wierd to be okay with both lesbians and trans women, but only separately.
Still holding out hope they didn’t mean it that way, and just genuinely most of the trans people they meet are straight or bi.
Yeah, person who doesn’t like masculinity is attracted to femininity. So shocking.
Tbh, your therapist’s comment has really gotten under my skin, and I’m worked up for you! You’re completely in the right. Don’t second guess yourself!
I’ll try not to! I’m also trying not to get too worked up about it, sometimes he just does stuff like this. I guess we’ll see!
In my experience on the internet, it seems like a lot of trans femmes like females primarily, whether sexuality or romantically. Guess a lot of those people are bi. But it seems weird to make a stink about you liking women, but not bi people liking women? Unless he’s just assuming bi people are basically straight and erasing the other part of their attraction…