• @icydefiance@lemm.ee
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          101 month ago

          Avoiding slurs is good, but you’re still claiming that her experience is impossible because you’ve never experienced the same thing.

    • Liz
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      131 month ago

      In their right mind

      Some weirdos take correction or rejection as a personal attack, and subscribe to the ethos that the best defense is a good offense.

        • Liz
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          -31 month ago

          Yeah the comic is pretty dumb, it’s definitely an over simplification. Just recognize that dudes being aggressive is a thing, even if it’s not all dudes, because it certainly isn’t.

          • @linkhidalgogato@lemmy.ml
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            01 month ago

            so true only men can be aggressive that is a uniquely male thing so its worth pointing it out over the reality that all people are aggressive at times

            • Liz
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              11 month ago

              Aggressive men exist ≠ only men can be aggressive. This is why we teach a small amount of formal logic in school.

              • @linkhidalgogato@lemmy.ml
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                11 month ago

                if that was what u meant then there is not reason to say what u said, everyone knows everyone can be aggressive, according to u ur previous comment is basically u saying “the sky is blue”. be honest with urself u know what u meant.

                • Liz
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                  11 month ago

                  Bruh, we’re in sma thread where someone denied the possibility of men being irrationally aggressive. I’m merely counting and saying that, no, that is a thing that happens sometimes. If they had also claimed women can’t be irrationally aggressive I would have addressed that, too.

                  • @linkhidalgogato@lemmy.ml
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                    11 month ago

                    no from the look of the modlog that is definitely a lie, again be honest with urself and me i like honesty too.

                    pretty sure op said that this is extremely rare and that there are 2 sides to a story.

                    also im not convinced that in the same context but with women switch in u would have said the same that sounds like bs, like if someone made a comic complaining about abuse from women and someone in the comment said something like “this is sexist and talking about this is a distraction from real sexism because the overwhelming majority of people who are abused are actually women so this is just a tactic and people who talk about it dont actually care” u would be the exact kinda person who would agree.

    • @chuckleslord@lemmy.world
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      61 month ago

      Yeah, I’m gonna disagree with you here. Lots of people are really comfortable being excessive shits online, especially when they have some sort of grievance. PizzaCake is like a fucking lodestone for disdain, so this has definitely happened. Worse has definitely happened.

      Assuming, of course, that we’re both on the same page that this comic is an illustration of an online conversation and not, like, meant to be taken literally.