Thigh highs are nice. Granted, the pair I got as a programming socks meme is the pair I wear the least. Mostly because avoiding attention at work while waiting stripped pink socks is probably harder, but wearing just regular solid colored socks under my pants means I don’t have to feel my pants as much - its was extremely rare for me to wear pants except for dress code just because I dislike the texture.

Anyways, reddit is what lead to me questioning my gender and I’ve spent plenty of time in places like egg and tra and I’m a weeb who’d definitely take being anime-cat-girl if that was a realistic option that wouldn’t lead to social ostracization. And I’ve made programming socks joke elsewhere as well. OTOH, skirts kinda “meh” imo.

I don’t think sometimes making such jokes or liking certain things alone makes someone “reddit trans” when they can still have normal conversations and don’t project their preferences onto others.