LOL

So apparently the plant which is called “Raps” in german is called Rapeseed in English. You learn something new every day XD

My personal recommendations: get the big candles, not the thin ones. They produce way more wax and don’t fall over as easily. I also had a problem with them where they would melt a channel on the side and just leak out most wax. Also, as said before, colors similar to your skin tone might not show as well on camera

The producer is named Flame Marked Candles, but their website is in german

Thanks ^^ I should have known beforehand that white wouldn’t really be visible on my skin, but now I know better for the next time I’m buying candles

The entire rope structure doesn’t seem safe. I’m unsure if I should remove this post for showing potential bodily harm

Nice ^^ looks really good on you

I also really love the color :o

Oh yeah, it took two other women to get that job done!

I hope you too will find some ways for yourself to not get abused through it. Always remember that your consent comes first, no matter what the rest of your body says in the moment

Sounds really interesting. I have always used a baton instead if I wanted a deeper pain

Not really, if you look below the bruise there is a small red stripe from one of the hits. They are usually longer and only a bit wider than that when they are still fresh. I really love those intense, sharp pains from a cane. The bruise got made with multiple dozen hits from different angles to get that nice big spot. It doesn’t look that intense initially, but develops over a few days to become a deep purple (pictures from later days have a much stronger coloration).

I never used rattan, so I can’t really compare the two. From what I can gather it’s a type of wood/stick? Carbon doesn’t bend at all, so the force you use translates really well onto the skin. I’ll see if I can try using rattan soon to make a proper comparison

For me, no. It’s hard to archive because of the testosterone blockers. And doing a good session of heavy impact play will relax me more than an orgasm ever will anyways.

It obviously looks like a direct cause, but it’s quite irrelevant in my case

Honestly, there isn’t one. Especially as a man. We have this concept of “chasers”, basically creeps that fetishize and mistreat trans women, and every way to ask this makes you look like one. You could maybe put this into your dating profile or be very upfront about it, but that also will reduce your chances of success

I’d definitely say >75% still have one. Many more than that want a surgery, but most can’t get one due to the costs

Nice! ^^ awesome to know I inspire others LOL

Oh definitely. I’m living the best life out here. Everything bad that can happen is just a stepping stone to the future and you’ll learn from it for later

Well, I’m a trans woman. Most people I date are trans woman. If you take testosterone blockers as part of a hormone feminization therapy you are going to inevitably loose some penile functionality. So penetrative sex is not very usual for me. But I prefer doing BDSM activities way more anyways. Due to that sex doesn’t really end with somebody cumming, but whenever everybody is too exhausted to continue instead.

Overall I would consider that comparatively unusual, especially the kind of kinks that make up most of it

Supersaurus, because…

L O N G B O I

They originally got me into Mastodon as a federated service. I later fled Reddit and stumbled upon Lemmy as an alternative and really liked the Fediverse aspects of it. I recommended it to others and mentioned I had made that switch a few times, so some of my friends tried it out too and made accounts.

I know some still use it rarely and I know they know my account, so I didn’t want to run that risk of posting this on my main

Gonna use a spoiler here because of rather uncomfortable content

Wish you the best of luck with your search, I know how much that can suck

Depending on what thoughts you had during that it could be ADHD or something else. Really comes down to your personal definition and how you feel about it