If you think you made a mistake I say you should probably reach out to Ada through their email form and request an appeal, instead of making a thread here to complain about all of blahaj.zone. Listen I’m someone who used to be a lot like you and not understanding people being offended by wrong pronouns, I have learned though in my journey that for people who are Trans, assholes and bigots take every opportunity to push them down or make them feel invalid, on top of everything else. Being trans is not easy, and I don’t think people who aren’t can ever truly understand how difficult it really is.

So when someone is excusing using wrong pronouns or excusing transphobia, it can be extremely hurtful to people who are traumatized and have gone through misgendering and invalidation, or are continuing to go through it right now.

Try to understand that for many trans women out there, being called a dude hurts, not just because of being called a dude but all the other shit on top of that that comes with being trans.

Transfem tomboy power 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

1. Not sure I understand the whole shark thing, but I am what you might call Baby trans.
2. I have no plans to start as I don’t have voice dysphoria
3. I was banned off discord years ago (don’t judge me to harshly, I was a different person then)
4. Yeah I do relate with that one.

And if they do

Benefit of being big and strong like I am 😎💪🏳️‍⚧️

She absolutely would 🩷 🏳️‍⚧️ 💪

I agree, even tho I may be biased.

I do not see the problem necessarily with promoting OF etc as sex workers do have to make money and that is their job, however the less savory people who are attracted by the types of porn I listed above do often have problematic views, so agree with you there.

It would be no different than allowing people to post ads here on Lemmy for Pepsi, Liberty Mutual, and HeGetsUs. If someone made ad accounts to post that shit you’d ban them as an admin, why is OF spam any different to you?

I agree, cloudflare is evil and antithetical to the idea of Fediverse. #BlockCloudflare

I just did a few hours ago.

You’re free to have your own opinion, I was a reactive angry person. I’m not denying responsibility for what I did back then.

Some shit I made up from a long ass time ago. I got over it and don’t rlly care anymore.

How do I do it in a way that Admins will actually see the reports? Active community mods seem to dismiss reports so they aren’t seen and there isn’t exactly a way to report it so only admins can see them.

I second that one, lemmynsfw is something else entirely. Not just that it’s porn but porn instances attract less savory people, especially bots and OF promoters (which are almost the same thing) so probably would be a good idea to axe them for instance health.

We don’t want to cut off our community from folks on these instances but if they’re causing a lot of trouble- we can certainly consider it

If that’s the case and there is a desire to have community reach maybe older defederations should be re-evaluated. But I wasn’t under the impression that it mattered much compared to safety of minority users and security of the instance.

I mean lemm.ee literally hosts a conservative community, which on occasion features borderline transphobia and homophobia. Right-wing stuff ya know. discuss.online has wide open sign-ups and has regularly had spammers, trolls, and assholes come and go. They are a liability. As far as I can tell Lemmy hasn’t gotten substantially better moderation tools since those last two big defederations, so the issues with these servers and servers like them are still valid and apparent.

Probably, I crossposted there as well.

lemm.ee has !conservative@lemm.ee a community which is allowed to thrive by the main admin of this server. Along with all their users. Does this really seem like a good idea guys?

No one cares, people can just put images in comments, that’s all custom emojis are anyways, just images in comments.

You just can’t see any of that content from your server with no indication as to why, it’s built like that to waste your time like Reddit’s shadowban system. You can post in the communities of the defederated instance and it’ll look fine and dandy but nothing will ever show up elsewhere.

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