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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I would ask “who hurt you?” but solitude can be damaging for one’s mental health too. No, seriously, I get the point you want to make but not having talked to any other person for 4 years is not healthy either. It looks like you have internalized a lot of these things that you wrote about and the way you talk about them doesn’t look like you can find whatever you need too.


  • When I see an overfliendly guy saying hello and trying to initiate a small talk with everyone I instantly think that they are either making fun of it or that something is wrong with them. Politeness and openness have their own social cues and when someone just decides to do something for just one day on their life, just because “today say hello people” then it sticks out. You cannot draw conclusions out of it. I would simply just ignore them and look the other way. That doesn’t mean that I would also ignore someone who would truly wanted something










  • Man what the fuck is this thing in the US? Why don’t they have defaults? Like if I order a cheeseburger I want the conversation to end there. I don’t want the cashier to ask me if I want the normal cheese or the smoked one or the whatever the fuck they have available. And then if I want the normal fries or the country or or wtf. If I wanted an other-than-the-default I should had said it by myself. Or even worse once I was asked “which kind of cheese would you like in your cheeseburger?” Wtf sorry madam I didn’t study your catalog yesterday while at home to know in advance which kinds of cheese you have in your restaurant in which I come for my first time ever. I just want a fucking default cheeseburger, not to discuss with you about it for 5 minutes


  • They voluntarily put webcams in their houses with several known security issues which transmit everything open in the cloud. And they purposefully have a listening device which transmits to Amazon whatever they talk about in order to be able to listen to music without having to use a mouse or tap on a screen.

    But having an ID with a photo on it? That’s where they put the line





  • we haven’t lost the knowledge or resources needed

    Yeah its not that simple. Knowledge is pretty much lost in terms that there is not any easy or practical way to reconstruct for example the computer that navigated the Apollo and assume that this will provide a flawless trip. This hardware is also outdated so it would had been dumb to attempt to reconstruct something so many decades old. Also the code that run there was coded for this specific hardware which makes it unsuitable for modern hardware. So yeah, the knowledge exists in archives but is not really usable as is




  • Because identifying the problem is just the first step. Working towards the solution is the next step and usually it is very difficult to make the breakthrough by yourself.

    I had the same stance as you, I read many books, watched many videos and was trying to work on it by thinking about it by myself. However the progress I made when I actually decided to talk to a real person and working on it by actually exposing myself to the therapist is in a different magnitude