Sundays he works, I’m off. He may finish at 6/7pm, usually has to work though. On Saturdays he travels 20-25 minutes to go and play DND in person, Mondays and Thursdays he plays online. Unfortunately this isn’t the first time we’ve had this conversation. I’ve said in the past that I feel as though gaming/DND is his top priority. He denies it, but it’s happened again. Mondays and Thursdays online are the same group, it’s a different group then on Saturdays. Stopping a Monday or Thursday session is an absolute no go. In fairness, that was something he did before we met. I’m okay with him wanting to do that in the evenings to unwind etc. these Saturday sessions have only been happening the past couple of months so it’s relatively new. If anything, I’d hope he would do maybe only one Saturday session a month, two at a push. Hope that’s given some more context
This has been spoken about a few times over the past couple of months. I love that he’s got his own hobbies and I have mine, it’s just frustrating how easily I’m forgotten. He’s absolutely obsessed with DND, any free time he’s making new characters and creating maps for future sessions etc. he does have avoidance issues. I’ve been in therapy for a few years so am able to open up and express myself. He’s not able to and just nods/agrees to get strained conversations over with