There were two women there already, apparently paying 20 bucks a month to do pushups and lunges.

Lmao you deserve it for talking shit about their workout

Ig to punish Dems but yeah

Yeah what the fuck

I mean I guess. I think people just head trump talking about how things are bad. that part is true, things ARE bad. And Dems like to explain how things aren’t actually bad

I just say I’m bi lol

Yeah. I just don’t know when to pull the trigger and I don’t want to be too late either. But I also don’t wanna leave home. Idk. I don’t want to lose my healthcare or worse, be put in some camp or men’s prison or something

Yeah so I am already in a blue state that has good trans protections. I’m just honestly wondering how far they’ll take it with the federal government. I just so happen to a work for an international company and could just do an internal transfer

Soooo how fucked are we? I am legitimately worried about losing my healthcare. Should I be looking to leave the country?

Idk it’s a difficult thing to accept. I’m just holding out hope I’ll get there. I think also managing expectations is good. Like I don’t expect to pass as cis, my own goal is to just pass as a woman and be treated as a woman and not constantly misgendered. I think it’s an ok goal and the bar is way lower for that

Idk. Like, I barely look at anyone else in a regular gym. Everyone around me I see is listening to music and stuff. It just a very solo kinda thing unless you’re doing some group activity

Ah I gotcha ok

If you’re in the US I did find that the dresses on stitch fix have been fitting me really well. I mean.its different for everyone but friends also report the same thing. I have recs

I don’t think I ever even come off as queer masc to people. Like I’m not super masc and if I literally changed how my voice sounded, no one would question how I talk I don’t think, but with my voice it’s just like … idk I can be in a dress and full makeup and I get he him’d. I figure it has to be my voice at this point

I actually scheduled a consult with a voice coach. It’s been like, idk a year now and I have made no progress with my voice so hoping that a voice coach can help me. Only problem is that I’m not out at work so I will not be able to go full time with my voice :(

Yeah I just feel super aimless with voice training. I’m still not out at work so I just end up having to go back to the man voice for like 8 hours a day, and I have a bit of a mental breakdown when I hear my own voice so my voice training has been fruitless. On top of that I do have a naturally pretty masculine voice, it doesn’t exist in the middle or anything where I just have to make a few adjustments. And the way I talk I think is pretty masculine.

However I finally got myself together and I have a consult for a voice coach this Friday so yeah. Hoping someone can help me with this

Veeeerrry interesting. Yeah I hear a similar thing from other places from my friends. I mean, cis lesbians here are cool too it’s just I don’t think I’m very seen as a woman so there’s just no interest. I need to do voice training lol I’m pretty sure that’s seriously hindering me at this point

Lmao who needs cis girls anyway

The only cis girl who has a crush on me is straight 😭🥲

Oh yes part of it is that there are less lesbians however, I have over the past 8 months essentially had 0 interest from lesbians or even bi cis women. A little surprising tbh to me at least, I thought I would be an ideal for bi women

Yeah like I’ll say I’ve done dating on both sides now, and I’m realizing that the competition if you’re masc kinda sucks. Like, I was getting a lot of luck by just… Proposing a date, with a location etc, something casual pretty quickly? I picked up the tab etc all the things that are “expected” from a masc presenting person. And it usually went well.

In my experience most men out there basically want me to just come over and suck them off or something. They put in absolutely no effort and a good portion can’t even control themselves not to be weird as hell and be overly horny with me. A good half of the messages I get are some version of “I want to fuck you now” which, tbh, is fucking weird!! Like I don’t even know you sir!!