I’ll write something here later probably. In the meantime, hi to whoever’s reading this I hope you get a chance to enjoy something kind today :)

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Cake day: February 3rd, 2025

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  • Flannels, “men’s” tees/undershirts, “men’s” hoodies and “men’s” baseball caps for sure. They’ve got better watches too! And wallets. I have one just like my dad because I struggle with the big wallets that are marketed to women. I’d love a non-Velcro bi-fold with a bright leafy pattern someday though 🥲

    Unisex stuff in general though is awesome too, like Doc Martens and Converse.

    If I ever get married my goal is a bespoke waistcoat/tux sort of deal. Dresses are pretty and all but I want to feel dapper and have my legs separately covered.





  • Broadfern@lemmy.worldtoAutism@lemmy.worldAutism and meditation?
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    I don’t meditate regularly but mostly it informally involves listening to music, using a sensory/fidget toy or petting an animal to ground myself. Or box breathing in a pinch.

    Basically anything that lets me hone in on being directly present in the moment with a small focus in my physical environment. *Edit: the main draw for me is something I can directly control my reactions and engage with, if that helps.

    I pretty much only use it to calm anxiety spikes or dissociative episodes from bad changes in routine, or sensory overload before hitting a meltdown if I can catch it in time.