My current strategy of just pulling through with trans stuff, without explaining anything works pretty well, I feel(this is vibes basef, not evidence based). Of course there are limits, especially with clothing and the like, but so far noone really cares about my painted nails, my hair, or my jewelry.
What I get are compliments. It’s fun being able to experiment. The most important part is just not being nervous, but looking confident in yout own skin.
Act like people are weird for thinking something is unusual about you, people don’t like being weird, so they won’t ask. Make the other person commit a social faux pas in order to ask you anything you don’t want to be asked. Social rules exist and can be used as a tool.
I love to see it, there are many circumstances in which projecting confidence and acting like it’s fine and normal (it is, however you express yourself is based) is great strat. Cissies are cowards, they will usually fold. Love to see it. ❤
Happy Early May Day!
My current strategy of just pulling through with trans stuff, without explaining anything works pretty well, I feel(this is vibes basef, not evidence based). Of course there are limits, especially with clothing and the like, but so far noone really cares about my painted nails, my hair, or my jewelry.
What I get are compliments. It’s fun being able to experiment. The most important part is just not being nervous, but looking confident in yout own skin.
Act like people are weird for thinking something is unusual about you, people don’t like being weird, so they won’t ask. Make the other person commit a social faux pas in order to ask you anything you don’t want to be asked. Social rules exist and can be used as a tool.
Glad to hear that’s working for you, it’s pretty much my plan for when I start transitioning as well
I love to see it, there are many circumstances in which projecting confidence and acting like it’s fine and normal (it is, however you express yourself is based) is great strat. Cissies are cowards, they will usually fold. Love to see it. ❤