Are sites like lemmy , reddit and discord the true successors to the old internet forums of the 2000s . or were the forums superior to todays reddit , lemmy or discord

  • DefederateLemmyMl@feddit.nl
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    1 year ago

    Another difference is that on forums you tend to get to know the members if you hang around long enough. On reddit/lemmy I never got this feeling, you’re just discussing with random usernames and once the discussion is over, you will probably never run into each other again.

    • Vent@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      You still get this effect if you are active on specific communities, especially smaller ones.

      • DefederateLemmyMl@feddit.nl
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        1 year ago

        Can’t say I ever got that from any subreddit, except in the negative way: trolls and overzealous moderators.

        • candybrie@lemmy.world
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          1 year ago

          Definitely happened in my bump group. But it was maybe 50 active users all going through the same intense thing.

        • Gamma@beehaw.org
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          1 year ago

          As a redditor for over 13 years, the smaller communities were one of my favorite parts of the site.

    • DrQuint@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      You can still get to know people on reddit. I know some by name. But only on smaller communities that still use the old style flairs, because it’s easier to notice that the same type of post is generally attached to the same mini image and then the name gets noticeable.

      This effect was entirely gone from medium sized communities and up.

    • Margot Robbie@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      I feel that you get to know the regular users on your instance here pretty well, having a profile picture helps.

    • davefischer@beehaw.org
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      1 year ago

      I think about that a lot. On usenet, I had lots of friends. On modern forums, every conversation is sitting down with a bunch of strangers.

      Maybe it’s just my memory is shot because I’m old? Ha ha.

    • Dark Arc@social.packetloss.gg
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      1 year ago

      I feel like part of that might be the subtly of the avatars here vs forums where people tend to have unique large pictures and signatures