…until it is someone with narcissistic personality disorder, psychopathy and sociopathy, but mostly NPD.
EDIT: There seems to be some misunderstandings about this post. It is not an attack on this community or the users here, it’s just a general vent I have for the type of people that claim to be anti-ableist until it is something they don’t like.
Honestly, once I get a whiff I disengage immediately. For me, at this point, it might as well be a neon sign and I’m incredibly grateful for that.
There’s no point trying to make them happy with the framing. They want to be unhappy with it and will find a way.