I’m still not ok with siblings. Again, just from the perspective of probability, it’s astronomically unlikely that two siblings would both randomly decide that they’re ok with it independently from each other. We can be almost certain that one got the other into it, and we can’t be sure when that happened, whether the topic was breached as adults or whether the seed was planted during development.
The number of cases where two family members want to have sex with each other and nothing fucked up has happened in the process is so small that it may well be zero. We shouldn’t make a rule from the exception.
It doesn’t have to be random and independent. If neither sibling has power over the other (any more than any other couple), one proposes it, and the other accepts despite never having thought about it before and perhaps after thinking about it after, there’s still no problem, that’s literally how consent works.
I’m still not ok with siblings. Again, just from the perspective of probability, it’s astronomically unlikely that two siblings would both randomly decide that they’re ok with it independently from each other. We can be almost certain that one got the other into it, and we can’t be sure when that happened, whether the topic was breached as adults or whether the seed was planted during development.
The number of cases where two family members want to have sex with each other and nothing fucked up has happened in the process is so small that it may well be zero. We shouldn’t make a rule from the exception.
It doesn’t have to be random and independent. If neither sibling has power over the other (any more than any other couple), one proposes it, and the other accepts despite never having thought about it before and perhaps after thinking about it after, there’s still no problem, that’s literally how consent works.