I wish we lived in the kind of society many North Americans had - you know, before the settlers wiped them out. kids weren’t gendered and their names were neutral and temporary until they announced their adult names and genders at a coming out ceremony. literally broke down sobbing in public when I read about it in an anthropology book because of how much kinder and humane such a system is. obviously that’s not something you can implement on your own but you can deemphasize a kid’s assigned sex at birth and give leave them space to tell you who they are when they know it for themselves.