• SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world
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    8 days ago

    If there’s any interest on her part, then there’s no reason it shouldn’t. Doing it this way says you’re probably a bit shy, but she’s interesting enough to you for you to take the gamble on trying to connect anyway - many would think that’s cute & flattering. The fact you’re trying to be considerate of the potential pressure she might feel from being put in the spot if approached directly is also nice.

    • Snatchdaddy@hilariouschaos.comOP
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      7 days ago

      Thanks for the advice, ive been out of the dating scene for a while. I mean ive had my hook ups, but tinder is easy and beyond hookup i wasn’t interested at the time. Idk im 36 so im looking to settle down and have a real relationship. heart break sucks