i’m 22, gay trans man. my boyfriend is 21, cis man. he said women, specifically lesbians are boring and that he prefers men, specifically gay guys but not straight.
how are lesbians boring?? I don’t get it. is it because gay guys like men and lesbians don’t? i’m trying to understand, sorry 😭
Have you tried asking him what he meant? Like why he finds them boring.
he said he didn’t know why
Gay men, when I was younger, were very catty to me. Until I started showing up with other men (g/s/b/a), and then they were very nice. Sometimes I had liked to think about it as cats and dogs, but I think it’s something else. Something like, men seeing there’s absolutely nothing they want to gain from x, so they don’t give a toot. Gotta tell you though, not a fun mindset. Humans gunna hu though.
