You aren’t embarrassing yourself, you look perfectly fine. Looking at it from a perspective to criticize and provide advice (take this with a heaping mound of salt, my fashion sense is pretty underdeveloped), I think that it feels… rather low cut? in general, not a breast size thing, just a slightly off proportion of dress to skin I think, if that makes sense. Again, you look perfectly fine, this wouldn’t come to mind casually. Personally, I think this dress for you is a really good opportunity to play with larger necklaces, lean into it accessory wise. Not to fill the space, but disrupt it. You also might want to ask in the women’s stuff community for a woman focused perspective, not that men don’t have fashion sense or can’t give good advice, it’s just different judging fashion when they aren’t the ones wearing that kind of thing.
Trans woman here
You aren’t embarrassing yourself, you look perfectly fine. Looking at it from a perspective to criticize and provide advice (take this with a heaping mound of salt, my fashion sense is pretty underdeveloped), I think that it feels… rather low cut? in general, not a breast size thing, just a slightly off proportion of dress to skin I think, if that makes sense. Again, you look perfectly fine, this wouldn’t come to mind casually. Personally, I think this dress for you is a really good opportunity to play with larger necklaces, lean into it accessory wise. Not to fill the space, but disrupt it. You also might want to ask in the women’s stuff community for a woman focused perspective, not that men don’t have fashion sense or can’t give good advice, it’s just different judging fashion when they aren’t the ones wearing that kind of thing.