sometimes, the most valuable lessons are the harshest ones. What’s a piece of brutal, no BS advice you think every younger generation needs to hear? It could be from your own experience, something you learned the hard way, or just a tough truth no one talks about enough. Let’s hear the cold, honest reality.
To help jumpstart this community, I am crossposting posts that I like from /r/askmenover30. The original post can be found here.
Im 50 and no it does not. Losing my mom’s 68 year old BFF in December hurt just as much as my grandmother dying 37 years ago.
To add: knowing in advance that a death is imminent vs a sudden death is not easier. If you can, add people to your life. Loneliness makes loss even worse.
I think that depends on the death. My other grandmother who died a decade or so had significant dementia and hadn’t recognized me in two years despite weekly visits. By the time she died I had already mourned her loss.