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minus-squareJo Miran@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up35arrow-down2·edit-210 days agoMale friendship is all about keeping each other company while collectively ignoring one’s own and each other’s ongoing emotional needs and trauma.
minus-square1984linkfedilinkarrow-up4·edit-210 days agoI dont really feel the need to talk about traumas with my guy friends. I like to have a good time and laugh instead. :) Also when im at the gym, I think its great. Every guy is kind of quiet or having a good time with a friend. The women i listened to were talking about some sad story and seemingly shared some difficult thing (I dont know for sure).
Male friendship is all about keeping each other company while collectively ignoring one’s own and each other’s ongoing emotional needs and trauma.
I dont really feel the need to talk about traumas with my guy friends. I like to have a good time and laugh instead. :)
Also when im at the gym, I think its great. Every guy is kind of quiet or having a good time with a friend.
The women i listened to were talking about some sad story and seemingly shared some difficult thing (I dont know for sure).