Hello users of hexbear:

Due to recent meta posts in our mutual aid community we wanted to open up discussion about the community !mutual_aid@hexbear.net

We will never require explanation or justification from a user asking for aid in the community, and the mod and admin team continue to commit to not featuring an individual’s mutual aid request to prevent unfair exposure.

In addition, we will maintain a strict “No critical comments or meta comments” on a mutual aid post.

This post is to discuss the mutual aid community’s rule of allowing meta posts: mutual aid as a community, those making posts in it and those commenting on posts.

We are considering removing the exception allowing meta posts but wanted to involve the userbase before committing to a change.

Please comment with any thoughts, feelings, or suggestions regarding this change.

Thank you

  • Tommasi [she/her, pup/pup's]@hexbear.netEnglish
    27·
    23 hours ago

    I think it’s in a bad state and recently blocked it. A space where community members can help each other out in crisis is great, and while it sometimes functions like that, it’s used as an uregulated fundraising charity just as often.

    When we see people asking for hundreds of dollars in donations every month, we need to ask if that’s actually within the scope of this site to handle in a safe manner. As it stands, I don’t think it is. 100 % of the risks is put on the person donating, as that’s the only way we can do it with the resources available, but that’s an awful way to do charity.

    At the very least, I think the current warning in the comm about posts not being vetted is not clear enough and should explicitly warn users that they might be getting scammed.