• Gismonda@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Weird … I was told the exact same thing by my boss.

    So I stopped using emojis, and then she told me that my messages were “passive-aggressive” or “rude”

    And I told her that’s why people use emojis, to add the nuance that is missing because we aren’t communicating face-to-face 🤷‍♀️

    • zerofk@lemm.ee
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      5 hours ago

      Emoji are fine, but I hate when people follow every other word with one. You know the type: every “I see” is followed by 👀, they can’t mention a house without 🏠, and God hello you if they start talking about their pet, because there’s more pictures of animals, hearts, and stars than words.

    • Trailblazing Braille Taser@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      23 hours ago

      I worked with someone once who would write the most condescending chat messages and finish them off with a smiley face. I think he truly didn’t understand that the smiley made it worse. Regardless of the lack of social awareness, his superiority complex was annoying.

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        52 minutes ago

        I exclusively only use smileys sarcastically in work emails to shitty managers. He knew.

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        8 hours ago

        lol I would want to punch that person, too

        In this case, her expectation was that she receive whole paragraphs (with positivity if possible) for comments on her slide deck, rather than a short comment with my suggestion to make stuff better.

        She’s the dumbass who asked a technical editor to review her stuff 🤷‍♀️ 😀 😀

        (and before anyone points out my grammatical/punctuation errors above: it’s early and idgaf)

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        22 hours ago

        It sounds like you just don’t understand how brilliant you coworker was. You should probably look into effective communication methods and/or go back to school. Maybe if you weren’t so closed minded, you could learn something. 🙂

        /s in case it wasn’t obvious

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          13 hours ago

          Without the smiley face I’m annoyed enough… with it just gives me an image I want to punch 🫠