• Almacca@aussie.zone
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    21 hours ago

    I used to work with a guy that was like that. Older guy that was an agent finding me contract drafting work back in the 90s. I could never tell if he was serious or not. He’d say some real borderline shit, but eventually I realised, or just decided, that he was always joking, and reacted accordingly, usually by trying to extend the joke. Seeing The Onion header is enough to know it’s a joke.

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      21 hours ago

      I suspect you just worked with an asshole who thought you were a fellow asshole.

      If the only indication that something’s a joke is who’s saying it, that’s like people defending Dave Chappelle’s anti-trans bigotry, because ‘he’s a comedian.’ Like what makes it funny or benign is that he was onstage for an audience. Ha ha.

      If satire has to be labeled as satire, it is shite.

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        13 hours ago

        I suspect you just worked with an asshole who thought you were a fellow asshole.

        Nah mate. We’re Australian. You wouldn’t understand.

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          7 hours ago

          My guy, even you thought he crossed the line. You actively chose to believe it was banter. That does not guarantee it was.

          I understand what it’s like for bigots to look at you and assume you’re on their side. It feels friendly. It’s intended as friendly. It’s still bigotry. They’re telling jokes - but they’re not joking.

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            45 minutes ago

            I never said he said anything bigoted or offensive. It was so long ago that I can’t even remember exactly the sort of thing he said, to be honest, but I seem to recall they were more weird than offensive.