Did your parents have sex around you as a child?

And if so, what (if any) effect has it had on you?

Is it weird/confusing/traumatic for children, or does it provide a healthier and more realistic model of sexuality than pornography and school-based sex education?

  • Astigma@feddit.ukEnglish
    3412·
    2 days ago

    From your post history it seems you’re in or from the UK so you should know performing any sexual act in front of a child is illegal in the UK and honestly, just asking this question seems noncey.

    Edit: Lots of paedo apologists in this thread it seems.

    • Churbleyimyam@lemm.eeOP
      124·
      3 days ago

      For sure. And just to be 100% clear: child welfare needs to be our top priority at all times and in all places, with no exceptions. Lemmy is international and multicultural though and the post is already producing thoughtful and responsible discussion based on lived experience.

      I’m happy for mods to remove the post or even to remove it myself if the discussion becomes toxic or unsafe.

    • voracitude@lemmy.world
      104·
      2 days ago

      just asking this question seems noncey

      But why? Would it be noncey to talk about whether we got circumcised as children and how we feel about it now?

      Most people who get circumcised are fine with it and think it’s weird or gross to not be. I’m not cut and I hate the idea of it ever being done to me though. Odd how reality defies expectation there. I wonder if that is true of other men too. Hmm, maybe there are other topics this could also be true in, do you possibly think?

      This question is about the habits of people’s parents, and how it affected them growing up. This is not a question about fucking kids, and interpreting it as such is so out there it borders on the deliberate, which seems pretty fucking noncey to me. Why are you interpreting this as asking for permission to fuck kids?

        • voracitude@lemmy.world
          92·
          2 days ago

          We are not talking about fucking in front of children, we are talking about the lived experience of people who that has happened to and how it affected them. That means you are the one drawing false equivalence (you are equating fucking in front of kids with talking about the impact it had on the person). These are life experiences and can be talked about without the need for any thought-policing by you.

          I also made no assertions that the OP was asking for permission to be a paedophile.

          Is that so…

          just asking this question seems noncey

          This you?

        • remon@ani.social
          63·
          2 days ago

          I do however think it’s not an unreasonable assumption to make that a paedophile may want to read stories of parents sexually abusing their children.

          Really, that’s where you mind went from reading OPs question? I think that says more about you than OP.