Your values and beliefs result in you prioritizing your own petty interests over caring about your fellow humans, and those values and beliefs make you an asshole.
Buying into the patriarchy was my charitable assumption for why you hold those beliefs, since they’re the default settings for the vast majority of men. You’d just be a person that needed to reexamine the values that society pushed onto you vs what you believe for yourself. Everyone should constantly be doing that, and there’s no shame in it.
If you’ve self-examined, considered the impact that these values have, then decided that you LIKE them and that they make you who you want to be, that makes you a fucking sociopath.
You think saying pussy makes me sociopathic? You are the type of person that I mentioned I’m happy to repel. The type of person who makes such a dire judgement based on such a small infraction. If my vocabulary makes you want to stay away from me then it’s working.
Something is severely distorting your perception of how serious this is. The moral grandstanding is fucking unreal. Why don’t you tell me what’s actually gonna happen if I keep saying it? What are the maximum fucking stakes? Someone gets slightly uncomfortable? You just can’t stand that I won’t kneel to your purity bullshit and it’s making you irrational. The more I resist the more you escalate. Slinging shit around like “sociopath” makes this a tantrum.
I’m saying you are making choices based on values you hold, and that I’m judging you based on those values.
You are choosing to continue to say pussy, despite knowing that some folks find it hurtful.
That shows that you value your word choice over how those words might unintentionally hurt other people. You’re refusing to put away your shopping cart.
Because you hold that value, I think you’re an asshole.
Jesus Christ if you’re non-binary that’s somehow worse.
Our actions come from the values and beliefs that we hold. People should be judged by those values and beliefs.
Your actions show that you are not willing to just pick a different word to avoid potentially hurting people. You’re an asshole if you don’t for the same reason you’re an asshole if you don’t put away your shopping cart.
Your values and beliefs result in you prioritizing your own petty interests over caring about your fellow humans, and those values and beliefs make you an asshole.
Buying into the patriarchy was my charitable assumption for why you hold those beliefs, since they’re the default settings for the vast majority of men. You’d just be a person that needed to reexamine the values that society pushed onto you vs what you believe for yourself. Everyone should constantly be doing that, and there’s no shame in it.
If you’ve self-examined, considered the impact that these values have, then decided that you LIKE them and that they make you who you want to be, that makes you a fucking sociopath.
You think saying pussy makes me sociopathic? You are the type of person that I mentioned I’m happy to repel. The type of person who makes such a dire judgement based on such a small infraction. If my vocabulary makes you want to stay away from me then it’s working.
Something is severely distorting your perception of how serious this is. The moral grandstanding is fucking unreal. Why don’t you tell me what’s actually gonna happen if I keep saying it? What are the maximum fucking stakes? Someone gets slightly uncomfortable? You just can’t stand that I won’t kneel to your purity bullshit and it’s making you irrational. The more I resist the more you escalate. Slinging shit around like “sociopath” makes this a tantrum.
I maintain that you’re projecting. Get a grip.
I’m saying you are making choices based on values you hold, and that I’m judging you based on those values.
You are choosing to continue to say pussy, despite knowing that some folks find it hurtful.
That shows that you value your word choice over how those words might unintentionally hurt other people. You’re refusing to put away your shopping cart.
Because you hold that value, I think you’re an asshole.