• Match!!@pawb.social
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    21 hours ago

    the immunity totem is the part of the lease where it says your name and not everyone else’s

    • Anomalocaris@lemm.ee
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      20 hours ago

      it must really suck if sudently 2 boyfriend, 3 girlfriends, and 3 non binary partners decide to risk homelessness rather than stay with you.

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        16 hours ago

        I’ve seen some bad poly breakups. Once where the three all had a falling out. They jointly ownend the house they lived in together. Three were a few months where they all would just stay in their room as much as possible.

        One of them finally managed to get a loan to buy my friend out of her share. Now she refuses to be dependent on a partner for housing.

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        20 hours ago

        If all of them cannot pool together and find another place, then shit’s bad enough that you might not notice. As you now will be paying rent on whatever house y’all were sharing.

      • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
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        15 hours ago

        Look accordion practice space ain’t cheap and the master walk in closet has a 5 gallon water heater I can sit on while I play. Helps burn the stress after nightmares.