Beat case scenario: your grave sits unlooked at 99.9% of the time and wastes space. In a couple hundred years some douchebag archeologist who wants to pretend they aren’t a grave robber will fuck with your shit in the name of “science”.
Setup a shrine for your loved ones in your house if you have to. The world is for the living. When I die toss me in the nearest dumpster.
Strong agree. I’m likely to request to be cremated when my time comes. In 60 years no-one will remember me, no-one will be visiting my grave.