AITA: Welcome, FAQ, and How to Post

Crashdoom (he/him)@pawb.socialM to Am I The Asshole?@pawb.socialEnglish · 3 months ago

Welcome to Pawb.Social’s c/AITA!

While furry-themed, this is a general purpose Am I The Asshole community intended to help posters see their situations from another perspective and grow.

How to Post

Ensure your title starts with “AITA” and explains (concisely) what happened (e.g. “AITA for downing all the punch?”)
Describe the situation as objectively as you can, ensuring you anonymize other participants in the situation
Include how the other participants are upset with you or believe you to be the asshole (as much as you’re aware)
Include why you believe you might be the asshole at the end of your post
Try to keep posts reasonably concise. Only provide backstory information where it’s absolutely necessary and cannot be summarized.

FAQs

Voting Guide / Terminology

🟢 NTA – Not The Asshole
🟡 ESH – Everyone Sucks Here
🔴 YTA – You’re The Asshole
🔵 NAH – No Assholes Here
🟣 NMI - Need More Information

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Ever walk away from a conversation with your tail low, wondering if you were the problem? This is a space to share those moments — real-life conflicts where you’re genuinely unsure if you acted fairly or crossed a line.

Whether it’s pack drama, con tension, or just a messy roommate moment, this den is open to all species and stripes. Share your story, anonymized and in good faith, and let the community help you reflect — not roast.

Rules

Pawb.Social Instance Rules Apply
Be Civil
- Avoid ad hominem attacks – We’re here to help people reflect on what happened from an outside perspective, not harass or dunk on them.
Accept Outside Perspectives
- While you may not agree with a perspective, it’s not up for debate if you dislike what you hear; Accept it, and move on.
- If you think a commenter misunderstood or missed context, bring it up cordially.
What Happens in c/AITA, Stays in c/AITA
- To avoid brigading and harassment, please do not cross-post c/AITA posts to other communities (other than another AITA or similar community) or reference posts directly.
- We want to maintain a positive and reflective community, not a harassment front.

Voting Guide / Terminology

🟢 NTA – Not The Asshole
🟡 ESH – Everyone Sucks Here
🔴 YTA – You’re The Asshole
🔵 NAH – No Assholes Here
🟣 NMI - Need More Information

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