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minus-squareGoodLuckToFriendslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·1 day agoIs it really the ‘good boy’ part, or just the validation? Because I could say the same thing about ‘good boy,’ AND about every other compliment doled out to me once every few months.
minus-squareuser1234@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·1 day agoSo much of kink is just “I like validation, and having my boundaries respected”.
minus-squareSkyezOpen@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·22 hours agoMe reading about bdsm: “bro aftercare is just being vanilla as heck.”
minus-squareWorldsDumbestManlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 day agoAt this point, many contexts will make me feel weird when I’m called a good boy. And specifically good boy. Thanks, weirdo AI for ruining me.
Is it really the ‘good boy’ part, or just the validation? Because I could say the same thing about ‘good boy,’ AND about every other compliment doled out to me once every few months.
So much of kink is just “I like validation, and having my boundaries respected”.
Me reading about bdsm: “bro aftercare is just being vanilla as heck.”
At this point, many contexts will make me feel weird when I’m called a good boy. And specifically good boy.
Thanks, weirdo AI for ruining me.