• WarmSoda@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    I have questions too.
    Why are you surprised some very Catholic family members gave your daughter a bracelet?
    Did you previously tell those family members to please not give her any religious gifts?
    Do you not know what the images represent?
    What questions were you afraid your daughter was going to ask?

    • Guy Dudeman@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Our family members know that we’re not Catholic.

      No, we’ve never explicitly asked them not to talk about religion or give us religious stuff. It’s usually just kind of “known” that we aren’t into it.

      I do know exactly what the images are. I just don’t think they’re executed well, nor are they appropriate for a 6 year old.

      Questions like “Why does that person have their boobies out?” And “Why are they red?” And “Why are they posed like that?” And “Who are the lady and the man?”

      She doesn’t need answers to those kinds of questions at her age.

      • PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        Questions like “Why does that person have their boobies out?” And “Why are they red?” And “Why are they posed like that?” And “Who are the lady and the man?”

        I too would hesitate to try to explain House Bolton to a six year old.

  • Grass@geddit.social
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    1 year ago

    At least it’s not the americanized handsome white Jesus… But yeah I wouldn’t give a child a zombie Jesus on a cross bracelet

  • Therefore@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    My 5 yr old came home from school last week asking about heaven, as at least one of her friends are catholic. It’s chilling how little control over religion you have when it comes to younger kids, and it’s the age where indoctrination is most effective. It’s tough to know what to say…

    • there are tons of adults who think they have the same imaginary friend who really doesn’t exist.

    • people look for balance to the idea of their own mortality so they made up religion, then it was coopted by those looking to assume its authority.

    • friend’s parents are wrong and their dog/grandma didn’t go to heaven cause it doesn’t exist.

    Obviously not those haha. Good luck though with your little one!

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      1 year ago

      My 5 year old believes that unicorns exist, they are just really good at hiding in the forest. I’m not going to tell them that it’s not true.

      The best I’ve been able to come up with is saying some people believe in god, some people don’t. Some people believe in ghosts, some people don’t. Everyone believes in different things, we can let them believe that without believing it ourselves.

  • GuyDudeman@lemmy.mlOP
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    1 year ago

    She quickly discarded the bracelet, thankfully, and I swooped it up and it shall never be seen again.

    But we were like… wow. Just… wow.