• Alloi@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    im more the hermit with a garden who lives a 20 minute walk away from the solar punk community type.

    visitors are fine, but no surprise visits. id have a panic attack. and id come to the community for trade and to hang occasionally.

    i am a person who can literally go months without talking to others outside of my immediate circle. not that i hate people, i quite enjoy most people, and wish i had the energy to hang out with them like everyone else. its just that i have a shorter wick than most people.

    it comes with an extreme sense of guilt from time to time, but the price of solace is almost never free. and to me its worth it so i can focus on my many hobbies.

    but i wish my wife could live with me as a hermit couple. thatd be siiiiiiick. i love her. very much.