• pixxelkick@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    I like to use partner even though I’m in a hetero relationship just cuz it sounds better.

    Also just to normalize it.

    Calling my fiance my partner makes me feel like we are a pair of ranch hands in the wild west, instead of two introverted weebs :3

    • FundMECFS@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      13 hours ago

      Same. I say my partner, because also girlfriend sounds too casual for what we have, but we aren’t married. It’s just very useful and gender neutral term.

      • JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world
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        11 hours ago

        Sounds too casual

        My partner and I just had this conversation recently. We don’t want to get married because we don’t see a point in bringing bureaucracy into our relationship. But we’ve been through too much to just be “dating” still. So, they’re my partner