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  • orize@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 days ago

    We’re already there?

    I am 31 years old. A lot of my friends aren’t chasing partners, yet those who do don’t really want to make babies due to the long array of problems affecting quality of life.

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      1 day ago

      I’m not exactly a baby-maker myself. I am quite anti-natalist as a matter of fact.

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      Historically, people have made babies under much more dire circumstances and some of them made it through so we’re here today. I don’t feel like having kids either, I know, but I think this sentiment comes from a luxurious position.

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        Historically, people didn’t have easy access to multiple forms of birth control.

        But then they’ve already started working on that: Dobbs, period policing, “NO CONDOMS FOR GAZA!!!”

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          My mother was born in a basement during the bombardments of Dresden while the house above them was burning. Her mother had barely made it out of the second floor with burning phosphorus running down the walls. At this point, my grandparents had been on the road for quite a while, narrowly escaping the Russian front, starting with leaving behind every single thing they owned at their farm estate in Silesia. They had nothing but their clothes on their back and they already experienced, that nobody wanted anything to do with the refugees from the east.

          My inconveniences are mild, compared to that. They are significant for me, but historically, we’re still at an all time high compared to our ancestors, unless you have old money in your bloodline.